Every pianist and piano student wants to "get good" or "play well." But how good is "good" and how well is "well?" Seems like everyone has an opinion about this and students often bounce from book to website, from one authority figure to another in search of an answer. Of course, they also search for the HOW to achieve whatever standard that particular authority is preaching. This is great - if you are said authority figure. It's not so hot if you are the poor pianist/piano student who dreams of making the grade.
The really sad part of this activity is that it is so unnecessary and so destructive of the enjoyment of making music. The aspiring pianist is placed in a mindset where they are constantly striving and never really reaping any reward for their effort. Sometimes I ask my own students, "Do you play the piano?" Many shake their heads sadly, often students who play quite well. "Still learning," they lament. "So...what will have to happen before you can say that you play the piano?" I ask. That's when their eyes glaze over and they find themselves without an answer. Seems that they have picked up some standard somewhere, used it to beat themselves up with, and can't even clearly articulate what that standard is. All they know is that they don't have it yet, whatever "it" might be.
The really sad part of this activity is that it is so unnecessary and so destructive of the enjoyment of making music. The aspiring pianist is placed in a mindset where they are constantly striving and never really reaping any reward for their effort. Sometimes I ask my own students, "Do you play the piano?" Many shake their heads sadly, often students who play quite well. "Still learning," they lament. "So...what will have to happen before you can say that you play the piano?" I ask. That's when their eyes glaze over and they find themselves without an answer. Seems that they have picked up some standard somewhere, used it to beat themselves up with, and can't even clearly articulate what that standard is. All they know is that they don't have it yet, whatever "it" might be.
Enough, friends. Let me tell you what I've learned from over 4 decades of playing piano professionally. It's a simple truth but I urge you not to ignore it just because it is so simple.
How good you have to be depends on whom you are trying to please.
There actually is NO definition of the word "good" which is accepted by one and all. Are you serious? We are talking about human beings here - famous for divergent opinions about the nature and quality of an artwork. Yet students work like crazy to please...well, they often are not really sure - somebody.
You learn very quickly when you actually work for people that their tastes and desires differ greatly. As they say, one man's food is another man's poison. This is VERY true in the world of music. Just ask 20 random folks what they consider good music. Make sure you ask them who they will pay good money to go see live. Some will buy season tickets to the symphony. Some wouldn't be caught dead there, but will pay high prices to go see some rapper or heavy metal band. Some girl's country heart throb is a goth chick's main dork. And what person over 20 listens to Hannah Montana over and over and over and....?
Decide on who you are looking to please. Then investigate and find out what will please them. This gets sticky since, the usual answer is "I want to please myself" and that gets us back in soup again if you have one of these "standards" and will only be pleased once that standard is met. Hey, try to free your mind from that for a moment by considering a 3 year old at the piano. Their form of musical enjoyment is called by adults "pounding." Yet the 3 year old loves this and considers it terrific fun and musical enjoyment.
So...are you more or less uptight than a 3 year old? Can you figure out what YOU will enjoy and to hell with the rest of the world? The ONLY time you have to play music which you don't like or play in a way you don't like is when you are getting paid for it. Lots. But then it's still a matter of pleasing yourself, isn't it?
Now I'm not saying you should pound on the piano. You aren't a 3 year old. I AM saying that you should try to come up with your own standards as to what pleases you and drop these "add-ons" which get promoted by self-serving jerks - either professional performers or music "instructors" or whomever, whose sole purpose is to build THEIR ego at the expense of YOURS.
And now some secrets.
Obviously, there must be some common likes and dislikes regarding music. Here they are, again, observed for 40 years of professional musicianship WORKING for a living.
1. Choose music which the listener loves, usually songs and pieces they already know. If you screw up the music choice, then don't bother going further because a great rendition of a tune you dislike is not going to make you like it more.
2. Get good enough to play this tune with a steady beat. The steadiness of the underlying pulse is the foundation of music all over the world. Only crazy artsy types go for anything else and that does NOT include the great composers. Getting good enough to keep the beat will mean not choosing musical arrangements which are too difficult.
3. Play a clean and clear melody, so you can easily hear the tune you already love so well.
All else: fancy harmony, little fills, subtleties of touch, are just icing on the cake, decorations of the tree. The above IS the cake and IS the tree. Pretty silly trying to ice a non-existent cake, isn't it. As a performer, I have learned to focus on the above and it has made me in demand. I know lots of pianists who are technically superior to me but folks don't find their music all that pleasing. These pianists are too busy with fancy frills and unimportant additions to keep a beat and play a clear melody. Thus, they miss the cake and spend all their time on the icing. Bad idea, for a professional AND an amateur.
You, as a human being, almost certainly subscribe to the three points above. The problem lies in various authorities trying to elevate fine points ("icing" if you will) to the status of significant points. These are the things that are quite hard to do and usually result in a sense of failure by the aspiring pianist. I leave it to you to wonder why some "piano teacher" would insist that you fail.
Well, that's it. I hope this produces some email and commentary. I know there are lots of you unhappy piano students and pianists out there. Let's hear from you.
You learn very quickly when you actually work for people that their tastes and desires differ greatly. As they say, one man's food is another man's poison. This is VERY true in the world of music. Just ask 20 random folks what they consider good music. Make sure you ask them who they will pay good money to go see live. Some will buy season tickets to the symphony. Some wouldn't be caught dead there, but will pay high prices to go see some rapper or heavy metal band. Some girl's country heart throb is a goth chick's main dork. And what person over 20 listens to Hannah Montana over and over and over and....?
Decide on who you are looking to please. Then investigate and find out what will please them. This gets sticky since, the usual answer is "I want to please myself" and that gets us back in soup again if you have one of these "standards" and will only be pleased once that standard is met. Hey, try to free your mind from that for a moment by considering a 3 year old at the piano. Their form of musical enjoyment is called by adults "pounding." Yet the 3 year old loves this and considers it terrific fun and musical enjoyment.
So...are you more or less uptight than a 3 year old? Can you figure out what YOU will enjoy and to hell with the rest of the world? The ONLY time you have to play music which you don't like or play in a way you don't like is when you are getting paid for it. Lots. But then it's still a matter of pleasing yourself, isn't it?
Now I'm not saying you should pound on the piano. You aren't a 3 year old. I AM saying that you should try to come up with your own standards as to what pleases you and drop these "add-ons" which get promoted by self-serving jerks - either professional performers or music "instructors" or whomever, whose sole purpose is to build THEIR ego at the expense of YOURS.
And now some secrets.
Obviously, there must be some common likes and dislikes regarding music. Here they are, again, observed for 40 years of professional musicianship WORKING for a living.
1. Choose music which the listener loves, usually songs and pieces they already know. If you screw up the music choice, then don't bother going further because a great rendition of a tune you dislike is not going to make you like it more.
2. Get good enough to play this tune with a steady beat. The steadiness of the underlying pulse is the foundation of music all over the world. Only crazy artsy types go for anything else and that does NOT include the great composers. Getting good enough to keep the beat will mean not choosing musical arrangements which are too difficult.
3. Play a clean and clear melody, so you can easily hear the tune you already love so well.
All else: fancy harmony, little fills, subtleties of touch, are just icing on the cake, decorations of the tree. The above IS the cake and IS the tree. Pretty silly trying to ice a non-existent cake, isn't it. As a performer, I have learned to focus on the above and it has made me in demand. I know lots of pianists who are technically superior to me but folks don't find their music all that pleasing. These pianists are too busy with fancy frills and unimportant additions to keep a beat and play a clear melody. Thus, they miss the cake and spend all their time on the icing. Bad idea, for a professional AND an amateur.
You, as a human being, almost certainly subscribe to the three points above. The problem lies in various authorities trying to elevate fine points ("icing" if you will) to the status of significant points. These are the things that are quite hard to do and usually result in a sense of failure by the aspiring pianist. I leave it to you to wonder why some "piano teacher" would insist that you fail.
Well, that's it. I hope this produces some email and commentary. I know there are lots of you unhappy piano students and pianists out there. Let's hear from you.
